I don't drink. I never have. But I still like to feel fancy at parties, and this is my favorite alcohol alternative:
Soda water with bitters. It's delicious! And medicinal 😜 If you ask the bartender to put it in a fancy glass, you might get lucky and get something as cute as this 👆🏼
I've also been experimenting with ordering a virgin hot toddy. That's super tasty as well. It's basically hot water with lemon, honey, a cinnamon stick, and an orange peel, but I haven't found a good way to order it without confusing the bartender yet. Will keep you posted!